Vivacious Valkyrie
This is a blog devoted to philosophies of model Cat RoPo, such as self-love, self-expression, feminism, human rights and all of the other beautiful things this world has to offer. It will contain writings, thoughts, articles, videos, and songs that will more than likely contradict each other at many points, for living is growing, and growing is an incredible but graceless process.
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My daughters should not have a truck grabbed out of their hands by an adult and handed to a male cousin because, “This is a boy toy anyway.”
My son shouldn’t be ridiculed because his favorite color is pink.
(via lipstick-feminists)
YOLO is not an excuse to be a slut.
It’s not an excuse to be a judgmental asshole either, but that doesn’t seem to be stopping any of these people. Real. Nice.
Harold and Maude
Harold: I decided then that I enjoyed being dead.
Maude: I understand. A lot of people enjoy being dead. But they’re not dead, really. They’re just backing away from life
(Source: alnayaak, via itcostsalottorentaspaceship)
Word.
THIS IS THE BEST TEXT FROM HILLARY EVER. SHUT DOWN THE BLOG, YOU CAN’T TOP THIS.
lolol
i’d be okay with this.
Oh my god, I can’t. Hilary looks so BAMF.
(Source: textsfromhillaryclinton, via becauseiamawoman)
Wish I knew where this store was so I could go there all the time.
(Source: kittenbutter)
I’m sorry that I’m not sorry:
I think Don Draper is the most useless, trite, ANNOYING TV character in the history of the small screen. ”Wah, wah. I fucked her, her and her, WHERE’S MY COCKTAIL?! Let’s get it together boys, this stuff won’t sell itself…I’m so conflicted over what cocktail I’ll have next. Nice tits. Wah, wah.”
Arizona Legislators Trying To Declare Pregnancy Two Weeks Prior To Conception
This is not a headline from The Onion.
Legislators have had so much success smuggling in ulterior motives with 20-week bans that they’re now looking for ways to expand the amount of hard right anti-choice nonsense they can attach to those bills. The most recent—-and extreme—-example is Arizona. There, lawmakers are writing a 20-week abortion ban that starts counting off at the first day of a woman’s period. Yes, they’re arguing that you’re “pregnant” while you’re actually getting your period. In fact, as Kate Sheppard at Mother Jones explains, they’re really trying to steal as many weeks as possible away from women seeking abortion:
Most women ovulate about 14 or 15 days after their period starts, and women can usually get pregnant from sexual intercourse that occured anywhere between five days before ovulation and a day after it. Arizona’s law would start the clock at a woman’s last period—which means, in practice, that the law prohibits abortion later than 18 weeks after a woman actually becomes pregnant.
That’s bad in and of itself, but taking a step back and looking at the big picture makes this law look even more sinister. Medically speaking, pregnancy starts when a fertilized egg implants in the uterine lining. Anti-choicers have attempted to define it earlier with their failed attempts to pass “personhood” law that would define not just pregnancy, but “personhood” as beginning at conception. Now in Arizona, they’re trying to argue that you’re pregnant a couple of weeks before you even had the sex that resulted in your pregnancy.
Think about the implications down the road. If a woman is “pregnant” two weeks before she becomes pregnant, than any fertile woman—-including those currently menstruating!—-should really be considered pregnant. After all, we don’t know the future. We don’t know that any non-pregnant woman couldn’t be pregnant two weeks from now, making her retroactively pregnant now. Considering that it’s anti-choice nuts we’re talking about, it’s safe to assume that they’d simply prefer a situation where all women of reproductive age are considered to be pregnant, on the grounds that they could be two weeks from now. Better safe than sorry, especially if that mentality means you get to exert maximum control over the bodies of women of reproductive age.
Additional sources: Opposing Views, Mother Jones
Doesn’t it make you want to stand up and cheer when your state legislators are bold enough to toss out that silly, antiquated, “basic human biology” rule book?
over a 20-year period, asking some 2,000 men in college questions like this: “Have you ever had sexual intercourse with someone, even though they did not want to, because they were too intoxicated [on alcohol or drugs] to resist your sexual advances?”, or “Have you ever had sexual intercourse with an adult when they didn’t want to because you used physical force [twisting their arm, holding them down, etc.] if they didn’t cooperate?”
About 1 in 16 men answered “yes” to these or similar questions.
1 in sixteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen are you kidding me
if we got 1 in 16 motherfuckers admitting to raping women on college campuses and are “very forthcoming. In fact, they are eager to talk about their experience”, you better fucking believe tossing out your short skirt and staying in at night isn’t going to keep you safe.
(via grrl-meat)
Even worse:
In a survey of 11-14 year-old boys…
- 51% believed that “forced sex” is acceptable if a boy spends a lot of money on a girl
- 31% believed that it would be okay to rape someone with past sexual experience
- 65% believed that sexual assault is okay if dating for more than 6 months
- 87% believed that sexual assault is okay if the perpetrator and victim are married
…aaand in a survey of college males…
- 1 in 12 admitted to committing rape (under the legal definition)
- 35% admitted that they would commit rape under circumstances if they could get away with it
…and in another…
- 43% of college-aged men admitted to using “coercive behavior” such as ignoring a woman’s nonconsent and using physical aggression
(via wretchedoftheearth)
really? how does this not make me even more scared? fuck
(via strugglingtobeheard)
reblogging for commentary
(via ethiopienne)
The problem is that the men probably didn’t realize it was rape since it’s basically a cultural norm.
(via realgirlpress)
Rape culture is real and horrible
(via teandrevolution)
The more I learn about rape culture, the more it becomes clear that it never has been and never will be the women who are “asking for it” but the fact that certain misguided men are taught not to care what we do or do not ask of them.
(Source: NPR, via intended-thing)
